our future.

my awesome sister cara sent me this shirt! who knows what the future will hold for us, but by goddess, our baby will be raised to be a badass feminist/pro-feminist (if it happens to be a dude).

photo phun.

 my sister cara came to town

 so we hired local photographer, slim

 to capture our time together.

this is a cool effect called ghost light.

SO creepy!

we're a bit theatrical- perfect subjects.

the start of lea's 25th year started off super weird.

painting with light.

do you see slim's birks back there?

i just love this shot.

thanks, slim for these beautiful shots-

you've got a gift kid.

cakes for cara.

look at these sweets, 

drool on crazy cat ladies!

i'm ordering a few up for my cat-nephews,

jc and reuven.

meow.

lucky 7 sister

happy birthday cara!!

31, what? amazing!

mr. bacharach & dylan mkay

were totally worth the 75 grand

a piece for your birthday greetings- you're worth it sissy!

thanks for banking advice, you're a really fabulous big sister

 & i love you so much!

hope you've had the best day ever.

best friends.

did you ever have those best friend necklaces

with the heart cut in two? i  love them. i always 

wanted the first part of the words... the second part

just didn't seem right to me...

check out all the innovative ways to show your bestie you care..

found all of these on etsy.

peanut butter jelly time for all my camp pals.

milk & cookies for my cookie monster bff raffy.

phone date gals, for my tara jane.

perfect for my nantucket loving best pal, say say.

my fabulous cori would totally rock this.

i think she'd be the poo & i'd be the pee...

just because we work together & share too much &

we're totally weird like that.

this is perfect for me & my beautiful sisters.

of course i'm in the middle... the sweetest one.

caracaracatlady

dedicated to my cat lady sister, cara.

fox & friends.

now this is funny...

poor people hate having jobs!
thanks, caracaracara.

cara, est. 1982.

happy birthday cara!!!

my beautiful sister is 30 today!

cara is an amazing advocate, riot grrrrl & counselor.

she's wicked smart, ridiculously silly & fun

and is a great friend, daughter and sister.

she is also a cat lady and

mom to my nephews jc & reuven.  

cara and her sweet man, ned.

they're celebrating their one year anniversary

in nyc this weekend- happy happy happy.

sister love.

gorgeous.

meow.

cara enjoys feminist literature, vintage green couches, cats,

ned, buffy, reading, sharing and children.

she also knows how to bust a move.

happy birthday, cara!

we love you.

dear ned...

cara turns 30 tomorrow.

no pressure!

zombie caracaracara.

my sister cara is a zombie!

she's to the left of the really bloody guy. 

i'm not sure what's going on here. crazy new yorkers.